SILENCED AND ATTACKED
I was in a cafe buying something when a man appeared and started to touch me even after I said don’t. I left, he followed me and grabbed me and held his hand over my mouth. Then I woke up. As events in my life, I am afraid to lose my boyfriend.
WHAT THIS DREAM MEANS - SELF ASSERTION AND BOUNDARIES
The story is about someone who does not respect the wishes and boundaries of another. Someone is trespassing despite another's wishes.
Is there anyone who does not want you to speak up? Are you a person who is reluctant to speak up for yourself. That can be one general meaning as an invitation to assert yourself more.
The dream can also be a comment on wanting to please your boyfriend, but doing so out of fear. That could lead to letting him or anyone do what they should not. It's up to you to set boundaries with your boyfriend or anyone else. If you can’t say no to a boyfriend, though, that can lead to trouble. To have a relationship that works, respect yourself and set boundaries. That insures others will respect you, too.
BOTTOM LINE: The dream is about self assertion and setting boundaries. Take care.
METEORITE CRASHES THROUGH MY CEILING
A small meteorite or star crashed through the ceiling of my bedroom leaving a small hole and landing on my bed but it did not burn or hurt my bed. I picked up the small crystal shaped rock and ate it. The small hole in my ceiling continually grew larger in diameter but left no debris behind. New items began to appear in my bedroom, not impressive items or necessarily to my taste, just items. I felt confused. I am going through a lot of changes in work and relationships and I don’t care for much of it. It's not the way I’d like things.
WHAT THIS DREAM MEANS – ACCEPTANCE
It's a story of how something comes to someone in an unusual way, provides nourishment and is followed by other things entering their space. They are not thrilled but accept it. Another way of retelling that story is to say that someone's personal space is "pierced" in an unusual way which then lets new things come through.
I think the dream suggests life is demanding new things from you, and requires that you make adjustments to people and work situations, ones that are not comfortable yet. However, none of it is bad, and in fact, since you eat the original meteorite, it can be good for you. You may not like the changes that feel invasive in some ways, but they are there anyway.
BOTTOM LINE: The dream is mirroring what's going on in your life. It invites you to go with the flow and accept what's going on.
| DREAM - WILL I GET MY BOYFRIEND BACK?
I dream that my ex-boyfriend wanted me back and that he went to see me so we could spend time together. But I was rejecting him and telling him that I couldn't trust him anymore and that if he wanted to show me he really wanted to be with me he had to show me that he really wanted me back. I woke up and felt it should be true. Is he ever going to come back?
WHAT THIS DREAM MEANS – A REALITY CHECK
It's a story about you telling your boyfriend what you want so that he can meet your standards, but it does not show him meeting your standards. No, I don't think it says he will come back. I think the dream is saying you'd like him to come back.
BOTTOM LINE: The dream is a practice session of setting standards for how men should treat you. You'd do better to accept that this one treated you badly and move along to someone who treats you well and appreciates you.
THE MEN WHO LOVED ME COME BACK AND VISIT
I saw my father's face smiling at me, he was very happy. My father has passed away. In another part of the dream there was a guy I used to like who wanted to be my boyfriend but nothing happened between us. He also passed away at a very young age. I came over to my father and they both looked at me and were smiling. I felt very happy and a great feeling of love remained with me the entire day. I can still feel the love when I think about it.
A Dream Dictionary that I looked up says that a father in a dream means loss or monetary loss. I do not feel this is the case. I felt love and it was as if my father approved of me being with the young man I once loved who loved me at the time. I could see the young man's face, he had curly blond hair and big blue eyes when I met him. In my life, I am worried about my job and not making sufficient money. What does this dream mean?
WHAT THIS DREAM MEANS – LOVE AND SUPPORT ARE YOURS
Some dreams are not dreams, but actual experiences remembered as dreams because dreams are the only vehicle of memory we have while asleep. It was an experience of loved ones coming back to you and making you feel loved, and giving approval. I think it was an actual experience.
I think the purpose of the visit was to give you love and encouragement which you need at this time of challenges.
There can be extra meaning. In this case, the young man who loved you may be a message to "remember your own strengths of earlier days" and hang on to that strength during this time of challenge. A man in a woman’s dream can reflect her strengths. It's also possible that if you are single at the moment, someone may come into your life again that will give the kind of love the young man had for you. That does not mean tomorrow necessarily, but sometime coming up in your future.
BOTTOM LINE: DON’T USE DREAM DICTIONARIES. If you want to know what a dream means, a dream dictionary does not give the answer. Go to my website at www.interpretadream.com and see the Five Steps to Dream Meaning page. If you can learn to drive a car, you can learn to analyse a dream, it’s not that hard. Practice on ten dreams and you will surprise yourself.
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